"Hey Sandman, For the past 8 months, I've transitioned to nofap to being purple pill and now, while in a quasi-relationship considering
going MGTOW completely. I find myself starting to get attached to this girl and I have to actively push back against this urge. My plan is to not enter in a serious relationship - merely engage in sexual activities and the feelings of closeness. I'm aware this is a dangerous game because these feelings become addictive. I want to be successful and I wonder to what extent my desire for her (or any female love/attention) impedes my journey by way of distraction. In an attempt to find a substitute, I'm considering Pornography again but I struggle with the efficacy of Pornography as a man - hearing evidence that it does terrible things to the brain from dopa-mine overload to hearing it encouraged as a replacement for women. I'm sure there is some balance meant to be struck here, but I have yet to find a reputable source cover the topic in a way that definitively breaks it down. Thanks, keep up the good work!" Well Mr. Anonymous thanks for the donation and topic request. I fear that by being in a relationship and no longer fapping you're potentially giving her the keys to the kingdom. Falling in love is like getting drunk. At first you know it will be fun but the hangover will eventually be very painful. Sometimes that hangover comes in the form of an accidental pregnancy, divorce, micro-divorce or some other unhappy circumstance. Mr. Anonymous you are walking on a tight rope and holding your balance for now but if you fall there's a pit of spikes below you. The love you have for this woman you're with might intensify and then you will lose your ability to reason and think clearly. Love makes you intoxicated and it's dangerous. I can vouch for that as I have tried twice to balance going my own way while being in a relationship to date. Both times I lost the energy I used to produce this channel, my viewership and subscribers fell because I started making irrational videos. When a woman cheats on a guy and says it wasn't me that cheated on you, I don't know who that other woman was. That's similar to the way I felt when I fell in love after taking the red pill. I started acting out in automatic ways even when I tried using my reason. I know where you're coming from. But this woman or any other is a distraction from your purpose in life. Recently I've been watching some more videos about sexual transmutation and a lot of the literature says that most men accomplish the really great things in life between the ages of forty and sixty because that's when they have less sex and their energy gets redirected towards other things. I find that with fapping that energy never leaves. No matter how many times a day I do it, five to ten minutes later I'm frustrated again. The only relief I get is for a day or two after sex and cuddling. Other then that I have unlimited amounts of energy to produce with.
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